Happy collaborators |
Ah yes, collaboration! We're a cooperative species, right? Well, like many things in life, real collaboration is easy to say and difficult to do for real. I mean really hard. Like many schools, ours uses that particular C-word a lot. And it's a worthy goal. Most times, when I have listened to the ideas of others and worked them into my plans, the result has been something I wouldn't have achieved on my own. But it can be painful. You mean my idea (which I'm completely in love with) isn't going to work (in your opinion)? I thought we were sorted (with my idea central) - we're going to have to do some more work and throw some stuff away (my stuff)?
Two decades ago, at a young international school, I came up with a fail-safe plan to solve a discipline problem we were experiencing. I wrote a hierarchy of infractions and consequences which only required consistent application by all staff and our problem would be solved. I spent hours working out my idea and presented it to the colleagues. The meeting was very messy. They said it wouldn't work. I suspected resentment and fought back, but I got no support and the discussion evolved into a dismantling of my scheme and the acceptance of a less draconian proposal. It hurt. But it didn't take long for me to be grateful that I was saved from disaster because people cared enough to make me give up my proposal at the cost of a bruised ego.
Fine words butter no parsnips, as they say in England |
Collaborators image: actri.fr
Parsnip image: healtheatingfood.com